welcome to soyouvebeendumped.com

soyouvebeendumped.com (SYBD) launched on July 4, 2000 thus making us the longest-running, most established site dedicated solely dedicated to break-up support and advice*. This year alone, SYBD has been visited by men and women of all ages from more than 165 countries! We're here to help you through - 24/7.

If you're here to receive (or give some) support, head straight for the ex-change - the members' forum. It's the heart of this site and as we're a global forum, (do please read our terms of use before posting)! Still unsure if we can help? Why not read what members have said about using our supportive community!

Statistics show that most of us have been through (or will go through) at least one, major break-up in our lives. Heartbreak truly knows no boundaries - affecting us all similarly - regardless of our age, location, gender, profession, relationship's length or even our orientation.

Each year there have been tens of thousands posts from people just like you - all of whom are at various stages of recovery. In time, most So You've Been Dumped members learn to look for a positive outcome to their break-up. Nearly all of them begin to channel their energy into bettering themselves in one way or another - eventually. It is our mission to help people turn their pain into gain andt to feel better and stronger in the aftermath of a break up/divorce - we are not revenge or e-venge site.

If you're new here, please make sure you visit the first time on sybd page to see what it is we offer.

NEW IN 2008!

Check out the new products in our shop! Not just cool clothes - but mugs, totes, pillows and even keepsake boxes...so you can store those small mementos!

We also recommend a visit to the biggest collection of actual break-up lines on the web. Updated monthly, they're guaranteed to make you smile - even if just al little! Please send in yours too! Over the years, thousands of lines have been submitted and will be published in a book called Goodbye My Lover - keep them coming!

Like to read? Then check out a list of suggested reading. Both fiction and not fiction suggestions can be found here!

Thanks for logging on to: soyouvebeendumped.com - the world's first and foremost website for not just breaking-up but more importantly moving on. Accept no substitutes!

Best wishes, Thea Newcomb

* (According to Alexa.com - the highest ranking so far 400,325!)