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This is what forum members who've used or are using this site had to say about it:


- "Definition of SYBD [Pronounced es-wy-bee-dee] -noun

1. Place for the broken hearted that provides a fantastic support group, venting space, and lots of laughs along the
journey to happiness and self-improvement.

2. Your heartbreak therapist in disguise. Only cheaper. And better." - Pixiedust


"$30 = lifetime of free counseling
the friendship I've found here = priceless" - Mercedes


"I died, SYBD brought me back to life...." - Soulangel


"This site provided a path of bread crumbs out of the forest of self-doubt and anger. Once I had truly accepted that this had actually happened I opened up to what has been the most productive use of a disappointment in my life." - Kycool

"SYBD offers support for each stage of heartache after a break-up, from help with the initial shock of the unexpected end, to how to finally let go of a past heartbreak and embrace a new relationship." - Sunshine Girl

"I wore out the patience of my family and friends after my breakup. SYBD provided a community of caring people who had already experienced the things I was going through. By reading the thoughts of others further along than me, I was able to start healing and improving myself. I am forever in debt for the advice and reassurance that SYBD has provided me. My family and friends felt bad for me, but SYBD helped me get better." - Msbwu

"SYBD has given me a form of support that I can't get from friends or family." - Cactaceae


"SYBD helped me to go from supported to supportive." - Moonbeam

"This site has been a godsend. If it wasn't for this site, I'd probably be sitting alone in my room crying, but I'm not. It makes me realize that I'm not alone in my pain, but also offers some very valuable suggestions on how to move on. Realizing that everyone who contributes to this site is a loving, caring individual also reminds me not to be jaded by my breakup. What I think makes the site very special, is that not only can I share my story, but I can feel valued by responding to others, making suggestions, and overall, just realizing that I'm not alone. I can do this at any time of day!!! The words of empathy, encouragement and support from everyone have helped me realize that I have a lot to look forward to. Kudos!" - Chloe

"When my ex and I split up it was only this website and the people I met on it that kept me going. The advice I received here has changed my life, and I will be eternally grateful to everyone who has offered me kind words when I have needed them." - Kate

"Thanks for making this site, I've only been around a couple days and its made me feel better all ready. I was hating how I feel, I just want to be myself again. That's when I googled "How to get over a break up?" and your site popped up 1st. I haven't left soyouvebeendumped.com since or checked out any other sites... this one is perfect." - Holly68